Maddie’s Doula Services

My Doula Philosophy

As a birth doula, I believe that my presence during labour and birth should be as far as possible to protect your privacy, to ensure you feel safe and secure, stay relaxed and help with comfort measures, to act as your advocate with midwives/doctors and to support your partner so he has the physical and emotional strength to be there for you entirely. I believe doulas should be led by their clients and not impose our own values or feelings about birth or childcare. Doula support is practical and emotional.

By listening and providing information when asked, we can help guide couples through their own unique pregnancy and birth journey and into parenthood.

After the birth, I will try to protect your sacred time with the baby by giving you privacy to welcome him/her to the world.

I believe that my main job as a doula is to help and support, but not to judge.

I feel part of my task, as a postnatal doula, is to build confidence in the mother. I am there to offer support, encouragement and practical help to aid the smooth running of the household and help the family adjust to the birth of a new baby. I have been asked to do many and varied tasks as a postnatal doula, so don’t be afraid to ask for whatever you need!

I am used to seeing women in their nightclothes, the house in a mess, and the desperation for sleep in parents’ eyes – and I remember how it feels. I iron a mean shirt, read great stories, walk dogs, change nappies, walk miles pushing prams – you tell me what you need and I’ll do my best to help.

I can also be available during labour to care for older children, either at home while you labour in hospital, or in the house if you choose a home birth.

What services can I provide for you?

As a doula, I am able to accompany you and your partner through the process of preparing for birth and support you during labour, birth and bonding. I also can support you in the first weeks after birth and will visit at least once. I do not give medical advice nor do I undertake examinations or perform any other clinical task. I cannot make decisions for you. I can only act as a spokesperson for you (if this has been clearly stated in your birth plan). I am independent and self-employed. I am working for you, not your caregiver or hospital.

I draw on my knowledge and experience, to provide you with emotional support and physical comfort measures. If the need arises I can help you communicate with your midwife and medical care takers to ensure that you have all the information you need to make informed decisions during pregnancy, labour, bonding and early parenting. I can provide a continuous friendly face for you and your partner, make suggestions for planning and preparing your birth and bonding environment and building rapport with your midwives and medical attendants.

My fees

Birth Package:

£750 (includes all antenatal support, labour and birth, 1 postnatal visit and 6 weeks telephone support if needed after the birth)
For due dates after 1st January 2016, my fee will be £800
You may like to consider a shared care agreement (you have 2 doulas to support you, one of whom will come to your birth).

Travel costs: 20p per mile over 10 miles OR 2 taxi fares to, and from, the birth

The remainder of the full fee: payable by, or at, 38 weeks into the pregnancy or at the postnatal visit.

Postnatal rates: £20 per hour.

A note about fees: Money is a necessary evil. I need it, to care for myself and my family. However, if I wanted to be swimming in the stuff, I’d go do something else! I try not to let money get in the way of me supporting a family who I feel a real affinity for, so if you are concerned about my fees, talk to me. We can usually find a way. I have been paid in so many ways over the years so am definitely open to being paid or part-paid in kind, as well as cash. So if you or your partner have a skill or service you can share, let me know!
I’m happy to be paid in instalments.
Likewise, if, after you have been ‘doulaed’ you think I’m a bargain, you are very welcome to pay me more. If you want to show your appreciation, or you think I’m cheap at double the price, or you want others, less fortunate than you, to be able to benefit from doula support – whatever the reason, your gift is appreciated, received with love and used to help those in need.

Remember that Doula UK also has a voucher scheme, so friends and family can buy you doula support and if you are in receipt of state benefits, Doula UK also has an Access Fund